An iPod, a Time Share and a Picture Directory

What are all things you can get "for free"?

I like to get things for free and am often willing to endure things I generally consider unpleasant for the sake of receiving a "free" item. I recently was offered a free iPod Shuffle if I participated in a 1-hour software demonstration. Since the software was mildly of interest to me, I decided I could afford to give up an hour and getting a Shuffle was a bonus incentive. No harm, no foul and I'm hip with today's youth with my iPod (though Apple just released new versions which make mine out-of-date).

For vacations, my wife and I have found Time Shares to be a frugal way to get out of town for a week at minimal costs. Oh, we don't own one, but friends of ours do and offer to let us take advantage of the extra vacations. But at each time share, we're offered a morning-long sales pitch for which the resort will give us free stuff (a round of golf, a dinner or something like that).

At Grace, we're about two-thirds of the way through getting pictures taken for the church pictorial directory. The picture directory is another "free" deal. Get your picture taken and you get your picture in the directory and a free copy of that photo. But in exchange you have to sit through the sales pitch designed to get you to buy even more pictures.

With the church picture directory, I'm guessing that most of us aren't interested in buying the pictures. We simply have our pictures taken to participate in the directory. I'm trying to get statistics from the directory to test my assumption, but I'm pretty sure that's what I'm going to discover. But are we really being fair to the sales people who are trying to make a living based on selling us pictures? I'm finding the picture directory experience to be more and more awkward. I feel like I'm taking advantage of these people, even though their company made the initial offer of get a picture for free, they're assuming that we won't settle for the minimum offer and that they'll actually make some money off of us.

All that to say, I think this may be the last picture directory we do at Grace in this format. I wonder if others find it as awkward an experience as I do.